Face the music

I had yet to blog and honestly it was because it meant facing the music which is now our life. We had asked D weeks ago and would chat with him once or twice a week at most.  When we asked he was not at all surprised but didn't like the restraints that would be put on his sexual life and the restrictions of donating ( using a condom with his long time girlfriend). The questions he had made us wonder and made C worry.  We decided on our own to not use D as our donor. We called and let him know and he didn't seem to mind, at least we caught this in the early stage and not in the midst of TTC.

Being that we have no male friends we have decided to use a bank. C is worried about the money being that I am the only one working right now but I told her it will be fine. It is not the route we had hoped to use but sometimes things change.  In the beginning we had one other person in mind whom we only see once MAYBE twice a year, we actually might see him Sunday but im sure no conversation will come about that would end in him letting go into a cup once a month for us, bummer. 

C found the book she wanted: Confessions of the Other Mother: Non-Biological Lesbian Moms Tell All 

I hijacked it and have yet to finish it or give it back to her, which she is being a good sport about. We really must find more books on lesbian parenting. Maybe I will use the gift cards I received for books on Amazon.

On the Agenda

-Start walking! ( We make plans to do so and never do, we must stop doing this!)

-Continue to eat healthy 

-Find a book that will better explain the charting process

-Not let this stress us out!

-Dr. Apt June 1 ( and an ultra sound to make sure there are not cysts on the baby making organs..My ovaries )